Showing posts with label cam girl tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cam girl tips. Show all posts

Sunday, April 17, 2011

How foreign girls make money like American girls

As an American Camgirl I have an advantage, as do all my American Camgirl peers, and the advantage is that I speak perfect English and I know the subtle nuances of American culture (in short, I read American magazines, books and watch American TV-unless you count Vicky Cristina Barcelona, which is a super-hot film). Basically, I'm easy to talk to since MOST of my customers, as well as many other Camgirls I know, are American boys. However, if you have some exposure to English then you'll probably do fine like girls in Brazil or Colombia or even Mexico. Canadian girls are essentially American, but with a bit more chic, European culture and a little less tan. They totally rock and their paychecks keep them performing week after week.

Yup. American boys are not necessarily the horniest lads of the land but on average, they have the deepest pockets. And this is the name of the game. After all, nobody REALLY wants to shake their tail-feather for 6 hours straight if you are only making $1.99 a minute! I'll cease my blabbering.

My point is, if you want to make the most money per hour camming then you need to adjust and adapt to a culture that will LIKELY be your biggest set of clients. And these clients speak English and are generally American boys that watch The Simpsons, phart a lot, love watered-down domestic beer, and want to see a big bootie get spanked. In a nutshell, they're brats with money. And for the most part, they are tolerable brats so the excess of $100/hour makes it reasonable to get a bit kinky.

However, as I've mentioned before, you still need to run your chat room how YOU want it, while maintaining that fine balance of alluring the clients into handing over their wallets and credit cards. Camming is so much more mental than physical, when you really notice what the very successful girls do. They are more than just a pretty face.

TTyl...

Cheers:)

Lisa X
http://www.camgirl-advice.blogspot.com/
www.twitter.com/CamgirlAdvice
Camgirl.Advice@gmail.com

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Charge more per minute as a Camgirl-because you're worth it!

In the human experience, we are constantly adapting and changing and ultimately, bitching about any change that may arise. My nails cost more now and I tried to learn Vietnamese to tell them how upset I was but alas, I accepted the increased price (change). And this automatic resistance to change is the biggest reason why more webcam models don't charge MORE per minute when they are literally baring it all.

Why? Because when a totally awesome Camgirl ups her prices from $3.99 to let's say, $4.59 and SOME (not all) of her "regulars" will complain, and bitch and moan about how the prices ARE TOO HIGH.

BULLSHIT. At the end of the day, most "live models" are getting incredibly freaky and kinky at the request of another male voyeur (or several-which increases profits of course). Essentially, these gentleman are DIRECTING THEIR OWN PORN and they are going to whine about a $0.60 increase per minute? Boo-hoo. Let 'em all cry it out ladies.

"...this automatic resistance to change is the biggest reason why more webcam models don't charge MORE per minute when they are literally baring it all."

You are worth every single cent (or Euro, Pound, Yen, Peso, etc.) and as a driven Camgirl you should be SLOWLY increasing your prices. You are "boiling the frog" as they say in the South. What this saying means is, you can't just simply throw a frog into a pot of boiling water. No, not at all.

You have to START with a nice lukewarm water; something inviting for the gentleman to come join you in (maybe, $2.89 per minute your first week). As you start to get a following and some high-quality regulars that absolutely LOVE your cam sessions you should totally increase your prices by at least 12 cents per week. You are turning up the heat, little-by-little, on these little froggies ;)

Now, I know this sounds like an arbitrary number but I have tried several different "price strategies" over the last 7+ years of me camming and for some reason, 12 cents is just low enough (but high enough) to net some seriously nice profits. After 25 weeks (approximately 6-months that equals a $3.00  increase-um, yes please!) And since most girls should start at around $2-3 a minute, in 6-months of hustling on Streamate or MyFreeCams you can feasibly be making $5-$6 per minute. Personally, I think every single XXX webcam model should make at leat $6-$10 a minute. You can accomplish this by smaller price increases so the "crowd" really doesn't notice the increase enough to be shy with their wallets. Make more money and continue get that consistent paycheck, growing larger as it may be. By smaller, less noticeable bumps in your Camgirl rates you can do this. Easily.

And when you think about it, as gas prices are the HIGHEST IN HISTORY AT THIS TIME OF YEAR in the United States, nobody is really complaining too much in the media about gas prices. Why? Because "oil and gas" has also "boiled the frog" in an effort to make more profits. By small bumps in prices, over the long-haul. (Gas prices are projected to be $4-$5/gallon by summer btw's! Yikes!)

"As you start to get a following and some high-quality regulars that absolutely LOVE your cam sessions you should totally increase your prices by at least 12 cents per week. You are turning up the heat, little-by-little, on these little froggies ;)"

Petroleum and sex happen to be so similar because the average American guy 100% needs BOTH every...single...day. Sex sells and it will always be recession proof and since it's a necessity to gentleman then every single girl should charge AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE per minute.

The more Camgirls that adopt higher prices, slowly but surely, will drive up the AVERAGE PRICE that every single webcam model enjoys. This means American girls, Brazilian, Russian-every single model should make more by this global effort to charge more per minute, every week.

You are beautiful and you are worth it. And those hairy bastards need it. LOL!

Now go charge more for that next solo show and boil your frogs as you wish:)

Cheers:)

Lisa X

http://www.camgirl-advice.blogspot.com/
www.twitter.com/CamgirlAdvice
Camgirl.Advice@gmail.com

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Girls that LOVE camming make the most money at home

In this new year that we have all been inevitably pushed-through may hold the key to happiness, financial independence or just a camgirl emergency fund like my friend British Brooke wrote about recently. Either way, most of the happiness that you will ever garner will be because YOU made the decision to do so. For some, it's a squeeky-clean, architecturally structured, cubicle, sandwich-in-a-bag, legalistic kind of life. For some, they prefer making as much money as possible in 20 hours through a week-and spending the rest of the week LIVING LIFE. So, for some camming IS only about money but for most, it is the flexibility that ensues when you work for yourself. I am so, so proud of all these empowered, hard-working, beautiful girls that DRAIN wallets of unsuspecting sex addicts. LOL! But seriously, because a job that can make you $50-$75 an hour at home can be the difference between losing a home, custody of a child or even normal healthcare for family members.

But of course, there are the camgirls that spend everything on blow and taxi fare but that's the minority.

My point is, doing live shows at the casa for MORE money than an escort will make in the same time-period can truly be a pretty-cool time IF (and only if) you really love what you do.

The best pornstars are the models that TRULY enjoy sex and what they're doing. This same fact holds true for girls that are basically making custom porns for their clients-15 minutes at a time.

The girls that just kinda LAY there and look angry (because they haven't had a private session in a while) are the girls that OBVIOUSLY don't love what they do.

If you love what you do, the fantasy is so much more REAL. I mean, guys KNOW that they are paying to achieve an orgasm over the Internet-however, if the camgirls is able to find something enjoyable about the show THEN the guy actually thinks that you are turned on by him.

If you can accomplish that, you might as well start looking for a bigger apartment or house because this is the "magic sauce" for most of your online patrons.

All this has to be stated so the importance of what I'm about to say will fully sink-in: if you're being FORCED to be a camgirl online then QUIT! This is not an angry attempt to weed-out girls from the ever-growing industry that Streamate has built (especially with those commercials-traffic BUT more competition). It is simply a girl-to-girl talk so that if you're a struggling camgirl (because it's just not your thing and you hate it) then you should seriously pursue something that makes you HAPPY and pays the bills. For a lot of girls, camming for five days and making $1,000 actually DOES make them happy. But if you're the former, then life is way too short. Plus, if you're being forced by some lazy dude then kick 'em to the curb, buy some cute office attire and find a good gig.

I just can't stand the idea that some women are being pimped for lack of a better word when the Internet and camming was supposed to remove the control of males in the sex industry (although virtual, it's still a part of the sex industry) and empower women to NOT be mistreated and to make MORE money. After all, since the dawn of time, there have been a multitude of women that did most of the work while one alpha male decided to take all the loot. Not anymore:)

Make that money girls and empower yourself every single day! You are beautiful and you can do much more than you ever thought possible.

Cheers:)

Lisa X
www.camgirl-advice.blogspot.com
www.twitter.com/CamgirlAdvice
Camgirl.Advice@gmail.com

Monday, December 27, 2010

Making money with Adultwork.com

The wide wonderful world of camming is so appealing to women in today's down-trodden economy where many of the cam models are supporting an out of work boyfriend or husband. Though we find this an alarming trend to be true, we also see a significant portion of girls that just cannot risk showing their face but DESPERATELY need the extra cash. I completely understand. Read further for the solution for any American hottie that wants to make really good money at home.

www.Adultwork.com

And check it out...there is no referral link. Just the regular link to show that I'm NOT making money off any of my recommendations. I just simply find myself, and lots of other girls, making very nice amounts of dough from (mostly) polite, well-healed English blokes that love to have fun. Easy as pie.

SAME DAY PAY
Yes, through the majesty of PrincessJenny via AW, and a 5% fee, you can have your earnings from Adultwork transferred to a Paypal account, which can be really beneficial at certain times (especially if you get a Paypal credit/debit card so no need to transfer). Otherwise, it's just 3-4 days later you can have the funds in your account but a lot of girls will "leave" all their Paypal funds to form a nice-size savings. I personally suggest at least $5,000 as a general rule of thumb, however this can be bigger or smaller depending on your expenses and where you live (in L.A. you might as well double-that and add a sugardaddy in order to have a cushion:) This personal finance can be a later topic for sure.

YOU CAN BLOCK AMERICA
Now, I know most American live cam models don't care if their face is shown but for the select few that are especially shy about anyone finding out their identity this is an easy way to still participate in camming while not having anyone in the States find out your naughty little $ecret:) So rest easy Madame, the mortgage bill can be handled and you'll still get to go to your PTA meeting and no one will know a thing. Of course, many girls still cam in the U.S.A. but maybe don't show all of their face but perhaps some sexy, luscious lips. It works for some girls that know how to pull it off (and most can learn) so this is an option too. If you don't like that idea, then block America and start camming during the day (when it's nighttime in the UK-where MOST of the sex chat clients are from) and maybe do a bunch of "Indy sites" or MyFreeCams where you can block individual states. The obvious point: most any type of girl can be a cam model is she REALLY wants to be, while minimizing any chance of people you know finding out your identity. Some girls don't care so it's all up to you and your personal preferences.

60% PAYOUT-SAMEDAY
Even after the PrincessJenny same-day fee of 5%, you still take home 60% of all the camming proceeds for the day. So, this is roughly double what Streamate's cut to the model is (and you have to wait a week for a check-but to be fair, they are very timely with their payments). So yeah, any camgirl can potentially have a second life in an underground scene across the pond with guys that ABSOLUTELY LOVE American accents. So flattering!

TRAFFIC IS BIG
While the traffic at Adultwork.com isn't as fast as say, a giant like Streamate.com, it's still very easy to snag privates with really cool guys that love to shower you with "credits" (money) and compliments. And an easy way to boost revenues when you're slaving away with a dildo is to sign-in to a bunch of other "Indy sites" like camwealth.com and several others. You get a bunch of exposure and with a bit of relatively easy multi-tasking you can have A LOT of traffic that is willing to pay you DOUBLE the percentage than at other sites. Plus, as I said earlier, the anonymity is pretty appealing to the sexy soccer mom that must maintain a status-quo. I get it and by all means, shake that tail-feather to make the money that you need. If it works for you then RUN with it and don't listen to anyone else that is being rude and just HOPING they you'll fail (like they obviously did). Camming is not hard if you are even half-way decent looking and willing to be consistent on some the best webcam sites. Yes, you have to get naked but alternatives such as GameCrush.com is something to consider for the hottie trying to bend some dollar bills:) Basically, if you're a bit of an exhibitionist then there's someway for you to make money at YOUR level of comfort. Some cam models are in it to make $100k a year while others like something to do and maybe only do it part-time and make a relatively meager $10k-$20k.

MAKE YOUR OWN PORN STORE
Another really cool thing about Adultwork.com is that you can basically set-up a virtual porn store where you can sell your celebritized dildos, panties, amateur XXX clips, and even cigarettes and other fetish items. It's an easy way to vastly increase your exposure and to sell more schwag, plain and simple! And with some guys paying upwards of $50+ per pair of panties it's no wonder MORE girls aren't flocking here to make even more money camming. It takes a small time investment to fully learn and utilize Adultwork but it's definitely worth it.

Ultimately, it's your world and you can do WHAT you want with the right knowledge. Hopefully, I can contribute to this quest with every blog post. Thank you to the readership.

Cheers:)

Lisa X
www.camgirl-advice.blogspot.com
www.twitter.com/CamgirlAdvice
Camgirl.Advice@gmail.com

Thursday, December 16, 2010

As with anything, strike while the iron is hot: emergency Holiday Camgirl profits

It is Christmas (and Hanukkah) time and it's a lovely time of year but there is one minor problem: the gifts.

Yes, the gifts are what the problem is, at least if you're a Camgirl. I mean think about it: there is always a "lull" of guys spending money during the Holidays in the Camgirl industry. The obvious reason is that guys are spending LESS of their discretionary income on private shows on Streamate, LiveJasmin, MFC, Adultwork, Yahoo Camgirls, etc. Yes, apparently guys spend money on gifts too so it is not totally shocking that this time of the year there is less cash coming to the chat models. BOO!!!

And the worst thing about this "Holiday stinginess" is that there is also a sudden glut of chat models getting on Streamate/LJ/MFC ALL at the same time to make THEIR extra money for Christmas shopping. Yes, many virtual models don't necessarily do this type of work "full time" but they are definitely going to try to make some extra cash for Christmas gifts. So here you see the problem. Economically speaking, there is a sudden INCREASE in supply (Camgirls getting on hoping to make a C-note in a few hours) while simultaneously there is an instant "wallet-closing" phase (LOWER DEMAND) of the guys that normally visit a Camgirls chat room. That is a problem, to say the least. All...because of gifts. :(

I see the REAL reason for Santa's motivation....;)


With all this said, there is a way to combat such a situation (actually a few ways). The main thing a Camgirl model needs to do is to "ride the wave of privates" on good nights. Basically, if you can't STAY out of private because you're THAT busy then by all means, try to get as much money as possible, potentially stretching your normal camming shifts an hour or two. This way, instead of a decent night at say, $120, you could have a much better night at say $240 or so. Why this is important is because you MAY try again the NEXT night to duplicate good earnings (even during the "lean" Holiday times) and may only make $60 or so. I have seen this so many times in my own personal experience and many of the cam models tell me they experience the same "seasonal spending dip".

With this said, a way to insulate from the post-Thanksgiving purse-synching from the guys is to get your popularity UP and to constantly be networking when you're NOT on cam. It's easier said than done (there is a bit of effort involved of course) but it's also NOT that hard to be courteous to a Tweet from a fan (that could potentially lead to a really good, consistent-spending "regular"). This is a perfect example of how it is relatively easy to turn FREE marketing of Twitter, Facebook, etc. into CASH in your bank account. Being a Camgirl is like running your own small business. And some girls get obsessed with it and totally rape dudes of their paychecks! It's glorious! My point is, all aspiring young businesswomen (Camgirls or otherwise) really have to have their eye on the long-term of their business and how simple cordial exchanges with fans can really get you a lot of extra "privates" (hopefully through your OWN AlertPay and on Skype so you receive MUCH more of the earnings-this is called "Indy" and we'll get into that a bit later) in the long-term scope of things.

One last tip on how to get more guys spending cash on that A$$ during the Holidays: be consistent. I have definitely touched on the need to be consistent as a live nude chat model before, but it bears repeating because it is THAT crucial. When you are consistent you will get MORE guys coming into your room. Now, there's nothing wrong with occasionally doing an afternoon show or something to garner NEW fans, but you're "Happy Hour(s)" should be a consistent thing. Why? Simple. Guys are creatures of habit. And if they like what they see, they'll probably log in the next night and are more likely to succumb to the pressure to well, cum;)

Quick update: I have been super-busy the last few months so I apologize for my lack of Camgirl tips and advice but I promise I have many more profitable techniques to be disclosed sooner, rather than later. It was hell when I first learned how to be a Camgirl but was amazed at the immediate cash available once I learned a few basic principles. And I knew a lot of other girls were sure to be in the same situation, so yeah, this is where this blog was born. To help other girls like me. Oh by the way, check out this super hot British blonde with super nice tits and ass: British Brooke. She is so hot! I can't stop staring! Muah!


Need I say more? And yes, I support the whip-cream industry too!!!

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah and...Cheers:)

Lisa X
http://www.camgirl-advice.blogspot.com/
www.twitter.com/CamgirlAdvice
Camgirl.Advice@gmail.com

Thursday, October 28, 2010

How to turn every guy into a "Regular" client Part II

It's absolutely crazy to think that some Camgirls are struggling during live cam shows when they are absolutely HOT! And yet, they simply think that's all they need to get paid...and they will get paid and do very well but sprinkle on a bit of personality, read this camgirl blog and pay attention to the details and $85k-$100k is totally feasible. This is not the high-end of income that can be made but an estimation of a Camgirl with "average" attractiveness that simply employs a few rules, tips, tricks and advice to bring out their true potential earnings.

Because it's all about the cash, ladies. It's a huge rush to know that you're getting paid to show off your body for most girls but it must be kept in perspective: live chat girls are trying to get paid the most while in the comfort of their apartment, dorm or home. And any cheap, weasel-ly dudes that are trying to form "relationships" with you outside of Streamate, LiveJasmin, Adultwork, Myfreecams, etc. are simply a VERY expensive bill that WILL cost you. Granted, it's an art that is admirable to get a guy to empty out his wallet while you make fun of his penis that's smaller than a Marlboro box but it's still ultimately a job. I only say this with love as there have been a few too many ladies getting done dirty by some former camming client or even blackmailed. Keep it simple in an already stressful job and don't mess with clients outside of a good ol' fashion PAYING private session.

With this being said, here are my other rules to turn every guy into a "Regular" client.

4) Don't give away too much for free. Although it's easy to think that you're enticing a "private" session by deep-throating a dildo on Free chat you're actually just getting a few wankers to cum unknowingly. Get these horny guys (that desperately want to blow their load to the image of your curvaceous self) to spend their money instead of seeing something "hot enough" in Free chat to reach climax. Also, guys love what they can't have and my experience is that generally the guys with the biggest pockets are guys that work hard and are competitive and therefore want to conquer. Playing very subtle mind games is not a sin, right??!

5) Kick trollers to the curb. For most guys, they get in a room, have a brief conversation to see if they mesh well with the Camgirl and then they either stay for a private session or go. No biggie, right? Well, this next Camgirl tip has to deal with the annoying guys that just sit in your room, full of banter but empty pockets. He's a troller and he's simply trying to beat-off the entire time HOPING to get enough of a glimpse to get-off to you (see above similar rule). But...perhaps you're a smart Camgirl and you DON'T give anything away for free...still, these unemployed leaches will stay on during every Free chat moment. Do NOT form friendships with these slackers as they will lead other potential spenders to believe that if you just simply "hang out" they can get some sort of quasi-relationship...without spending a dime. ES NO BUENO! If they're not spending after a while you need to simply ask nicely to either take you private or you're going to have to "kick" him to make room for $pender$.

Yes, I just said be a little mean. There's nothing wrong with a bit of tough-love and you're biggest fan may be unfamiliar with steady paychecks and ultimately find a way to get a job so he can spend cash on you. Besides, even giving away too much conversation and familiarity is not going to benefit you at all. The secret here is to get good at identifying the big spenders and separating (in due time) out the broke guys. Again, this is a job and if they don't like it they can go fuck themselves ;)

6) Consistent, well-written blogs with lots of pictures are` free marketing and a good idea if you want adoring fans that will spend 1/3 of their paycheck for the next 3 years just to be able to talk to you and watch you play with a toy (when most girls already do this). The power of a blog is really what you put into it. Some girls have professional, attractive blogs that bring in a lot of "regulars" that become engrossed with the heights simple marketing can bring a Camgirl. When you are all over the Internet in search engine results (and blogs can help a lot with this-Blogspot is owned by Google) then there's a better chance some doctor with $50k on his debit card will find you during a Google search. Plenty content with text that describes your services and what you look like, etc. can culminate into an underground following that can yield a much higher rate of traffic to your chat room (even on slow nights-curse you MLB playoffs!). Free marketing is all around us and giving a glimpse at your personality and your hotness is a great way to keep guys coming back and ultimately wanting to pursue more of an interaction-and that's where they have to pay (either on a cam site or a paysite that many Camgirls have nowadays). Facebook, blogs, Twitter, forums, commenting on blogs are all ways to get your product, goods or services out there to be purchased. A little bit of time and effort mixed with a bit of kinky creativity and some fun will yield paying clients without having to pay a dime for advertising. And the coolest thing I have noticed about social media is that it almost creates an addiction by some regulars that just can't get enough. It's not just sex people! It's the whole enchilada. You are making yourself into a star, regardless if you decide to pursue anything more than simply camming (which is totally understandable). More on branding and marketing in a later article.

Oh, and one more thing; don't make a BUNCH of blogs just for the sake of saying that you did. Stick with one (or two MAX) blogs that really give a quick glimpse to guys everywhere as to why you are worth paying for and how awesome you are. Quality...not quantity.

The tips and advice to make every client into a regular customer are numerous and expand well-beyond a two-part series on a blog. As you know, some of these tips I have blogged about before but I need to distinguish why they are so important, especially when trying to nail a long-standing (spending) relationship with a guy over a webcam. In this crazy, selfish and unforgiving world these guys are generally looking for a bit of someone to talk too as well. Remember this as there will always be a steady flow of guys that will make you $10-$20 per session but the BIG MONEY is getting a handful of guys that absolutely adore everything about you and can't seem to get enough. 

Stay profitable Camgirls! :)

Lisa X
www.camgirl-advice.blogspot.com
www.twitter.com/CamgirlAdvice
camgirl.advice@gmail.com  

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Success is the best revenge

People that make money are BUSY. Period. There is no way around it. Being a Camgirl is no exception.

I love how Jay-Z responds to his overzealous critics in his song, The Takeover by saying, “A wise man told me don’t argue with fools/cause people from a distance can’t tell who-is-who.”


"People that make money are BUSY. Period. There is no way around it. Being a Camgirl is no exception."

Yes, the ever-successful and always cool, calm and collected Jay-Z even realized that you can’t acknowledge the drama and the shit-talk simply because it distracts from your focus and work-ethic and it consumes you until you are different person, distracted from what makes you happiest. Yes, money is what we all work hard for but at the end of the day WE DO THIS to be happy…or so we are supposed to think. The money will come…in the meantime, you gotta be good to yourself and do what makes you happy.
“A wise man told me don’t argue with fools/cause people from a distance can’t tell who-is-who.” Sean Carter

For every well-adjusted, hard-working, capable woman out there you will find at least 10 “messy” women that behave like a “crab in a bucket”. They will only reach to pull you down. These same “crabs” won’t reach to pull themselves OUT of their own personal “bucket” of life. And who wants to be called a crab anyways?!
Don’t do this to other Camgirls. It will ruin your reputation and your ability to use the 24-hours in a day to make money (versus NOT making money and replying back to unsuccessful Camgirls that will probably turn to escorting because they don’t know how to operate as a successful Camgirl). That is not how you make the most of your time and efforts. Camgirls should be uniting and profiting off alliances and solid business connections and NOT trying to fill a personal void by taking their bitterness out on the world-wide-web.
Put aside any petty BS and focus on what YOU do well. After all, it’s NOT your job to put ignorant people in their place. Why? Because they are ignorant and they will NEVER learn. Do your thing girl and make that money and release the stress!

"After all, it’s NOT your job to put ignorant people in their place. Why? Because they are ignorant and they will NEVER learn."

Any begrudging rival Camgirl needs to know just one thing: success is the best revenge. NOTHING makes a true hater lose more sleep than replying with your actions (instead of feeble words) and making that mullah baby!!! Now, never look back and make it happen. Keep up that hard-work, Camgirls!
Until next time…

Rule #1 as a Camgirl

After a long and careful consideration process I decided to dip my toe into the world of XXX camming. It sounds kinda scary, I have to admit...but I'm somewhat of an exhibitionist and being a Camgirl to make extra money had been on my mind since High-School. Well, the first impression I got was that A LOT of dudes are going to try their very best to get as much "play" for FREE as possible. What turds, right?! I mean, these dudes are ALMOST slick and will not stop unless handled appropriately. You guessed it, "appropriately" means you have to be "straight-up" and blunt to these guys and tell them (with as much wit as you can muster) that there is no-way-in-hell that they are getting anything for free. (Note: To any of my regulars reading this, that's just a part of my charm boys ;)


On some nights, this is even too much FREE skin. Make them pay for it.
 Now let me explain "anything" a bit further. There's nothing wrong with flashin' a bit of tail or even letting a "nip slip" (a la Janet Jackson) happen but for Pete's sake you can't give them enough of a (free) show that the guys in your virtual chat room won't spend any money on you. Don't be lying around naked (thinking that you'll get their attention) and wonder why you aren't making at least $50/hour as a Camgirl.

"...you have to be "straight-up" and blunt to these guys and tell them...that there is no-way-in-hell that they are getting anything for free."

And yes, you guessed it again...guys can sometimes try even harder to get anything gratis. There are guys that will initially spend a lot of money on you by taking you private (exclusive, one-on-one chat where the dude requests what he likes)...and then slowly they'll come in your room less and try their darndest to strike up a private-message conversation, stating how they'd "...really love to actually be able to hold you...I'll take you to all the cool spots in Loserville, BFE"  Yup, extremely lame and somewhat tragic.

Another small section of the potential regulars out there will try to bully you over the internet saying things such as, "I'm a big-spending member here at this craptastically, void of any talent camsite and I could make things 'hard' for you if you won't at least give me your cell..." Yes, also pathetically tragic. Yes, I've had these messages and you have to handle this deucher-McDeuchington by completely ignoring him and banning him if he does not get the "picture" within a week. These guys can't do ANYTHING to you. If a site is unprofessional enough to actually listen to this type of nonsense then take your goods elsewhere if any partisan BS begins to accumulate. When you're making a typical camsite around 60%-65% of the total revenue you earn THEY SHOULD TREAT YOU LIKE ROYALTY. Period. End of story.

So, punch any of these cheapskates in the proverbial ball-sacks with a quick, blunt reply back and possibly save a left-hook for any admins (at the aforementioned craptastic camsite) giving you trouble for not wanting to give out personal info or shows for free. That's just absolutely unacceptable.

"When you're making a typical camsite around 60%-65% of the total revenue you earn THEY SHOULD TREAT YOU LIKE ROYALTY."

Expect to be treated like a Queen. You work too hard NOT too.
Oh yeah, and one more thing...I don't care if the guy that is requesting free shows/inappropriate (and dangerous) info is friggin' BRAD PITT with the sexual stamina of 10 Manuel Ferrera's...you don't give away ANYTHING for free. If you do it once, you will do it again and there are WAY too many guys out there that you will encounter that will do anything they can to get ANYTHING for free. Maybe it's the thrill of the challenge for these guys coupled with the fact that they live in their parents basement and huff paint on a regular basis and they just don't have the cash for chat. Do not feel sorry for these leaches to society. If you let them, they will be a leach on you and your potential earnings. The odds are stacked up against you if you give-in to this type of sub-par behavior.


I'm pretty sure I had this guy in a private session last week...
 After all, the exchanges you have while in the "camming world" is NOT real life...this is the virtual world of the internet and live camming is a game where the other players think it's real life. You have to separate your "Camgirl life" from your normal career as a human being or else you will start to feel like the camming is somehow an alternate universe. It's not. It's your easy way to make virtually as much money as you want...just as long as you don't fall for these spinnin' hubcaps-havin' selves that have an aversion for paying jobs. Every girl likes a guy with drive and cash and this is (especially) no exception. Do not get distracted by beggars. Just focus on the clients that are willing to take your hot-ass into private.

"Do not feel sorry for these leaches to society. If you let them, they will be a leach on you and your potential earnings."

Even though these experiences can be frustrating at times you ultimately adapt quickly to the noise that are the beggars and begin to tune them out and get into a comfortable position of being confident and patient for the members to take you private. Camgirl zen is what I call it. And the only way you get there is keeping a clear picture of your job as a Camgirl..."to make that money, honey!"

And that's it.

There is no need to find relationships/friendships in the realm of live camming when you should simply be stacking your bills as high as possible. Get your positive hustle on, Camgirls!


Cheers :)

Lisa X
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