Rule #1 as a Camgirl

After a long and careful consideration process I decided to dip my toe into the world of XXX camming. It sounds kinda scary, I have to admit...but I'm somewhat of an exhibitionist and being a Camgirl to make extra money had been on my mind since High-School. Well, the first impression I got was that A LOT of dudes are going to try their very best to get as much "play" for FREE as possible. What turds, right?! I mean, these dudes are ALMOST slick and will not stop unless handled appropriately. You guessed it, "appropriately" means you have to be "straight-up" and blunt to these guys and tell them (with as much wit as you can muster) that there is no-way-in-hell that they are getting anything for free. (Note: To any of my regulars reading this, that's just a part of my charm boys ;)



On some nights, this is even too much FREE skin. Make them pay for it.

 Now let me explain "anything" a bit further. There's nothing wrong with flashin' a bit of tail or even letting a "nip slip" (a la Janet Jackson) happen but for Pete's sake you can't give them enough of a (free) show that the guys in your virtual chat room won't spend any money on you. Don't be lying around naked (thinking that you'll get their attention) and wonder why you aren't making at least $50/hour as a Camgirl.

"...you have to be "straight-up" and blunt to these guys and tell them...that there is no-way-in-hell that they are getting anything for free."

And yes, you guessed it again...guys can sometimes try even harder to get anything gratis. There are guys that will initially spend a lot of money on you by taking you private (exclusive, one-on-one chat where the dude requests what he likes)...and then slowly they'll come in your room less and try their darndest to strike up a private-message conversation, stating how they'd "...really love to actually be able to hold you...I'll take you to all the cool spots in Loserville, BFE"  Yup, extremely lame and somewhat tragic.

Another small section of the potential regulars out there will try to bully you over the internet saying things such as, "I'm a big-spending member here at this craptastically, void of any talent camsite and I could make things 'hard' for you if you won't at least give me your cell..." Yes, also pathetically tragic. Yes, I've had these messages and you have to handle this deucher-McDeuchington by completely ignoring him and banning him if he does not get the "picture" within a week. These guys can't do ANYTHING to you. If a site is unprofessional enough to actually listen to this type of nonsense then take your goods elsewhere if any partisan BS begins to accumulate. When you're making a typical camsite around 60%-65% of the total revenue you earn THEY SHOULD TREAT YOU LIKE ROYALTY. Period. End of story.

So, punch any of these cheapskates in the proverbial ball-sacks with a quick, blunt reply back and possibly save a left-hook for any admins (at the aforementioned craptastic camsite) giving you trouble for not wanting to give out personal info or shows for free. That's just absolutely unacceptable.

"When you're making a typical camsite around 60%-65% of the total revenue you earn THEY SHOULD TREAT YOU LIKE ROYALTY."

Expect to be treated like a Queen. You work too hard NOT too.

Oh yeah, and one more thing...I don't care if the guy that is requesting free shows/inappropriate (and dangerous) info is friggin' BRAD PITT with the sexual stamina of 10 Manuel Ferrera's...you don't give away ANYTHING for free. If you do it once, you will do it again and there are WAY too many guys out there that you will encounter that will do anything they can to get ANYTHING for free. Maybe it's the thrill of the challenge for these guys coupled with the fact that they live in their parents basement and huff paint on a regular basis and they just don't have the cash for chat. Do not feel sorry for these leaches to society. If you let them, they will be a leach on you and your potential earnings. The odds are stacked up against you if you give-in to this type of sub-par behavior.



I'm pretty sure I had this guy in a private session last week...

 After all, the exchanges you have while in the "camming world" is NOT real life...this is the virtual world of the internet and live camming is a game where the other players think it's real life. You have to separate your "Camgirl life" from your normal career as a human being or else you will start to feel like the camming is somehow an alternate universe. It's not. It's your easy way to make virtually as much money as you want...just as long as you don't fall for these spinnin' hubcaps-havin' selves that have an aversion for paying jobs. Every girl likes a guy with drive and cash and this is (especially) no exception. Do not get distracted by beggars. Just focus on the clients that are willing to take your hot-ass into private.

"Do not feel sorry for these leaches to society. If you let them, they will be a leach on you and your potential earnings."

Even though these experiences can be frustrating at times you ultimately adapt quickly to the noise that are the beggars and begin to tune them out and get into a comfortable position of being confident and patient for the members to take you private. Camgirl zen is what I call it. And the only way you get there is keeping a clear picture of your job as a Camgirl..."to make that money, honey!"

And that's it.

There is no need to find relationships/friendships in the realm of live camming when you should simply be stacking your bills as high as possible. Get your positive hustle on, Camgirls!

Cheers :)

Lisa X
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