What Works for HER may not work for YOU

I have noticed over the years that there are a TON of different fetishes, tastes, turn-ons and requests to know that there is slew of GUYS for every girl-regardless if you don’t think you look like Megan Fox or some other hot starlette. It’s almost as if even though my look doesn’t necessarily fit in the “mainstream” belief of what is perfectly gorgeous I’m still able to have a steady stream of interested guys (and cash). At the end of the day, there are a lot of ways to make money at camming but it’s all about doing what you are truly comfortable with. Guys can tell when you’re turned on and it makes the whole process that much more addictive for these horny guys.

Different folks, different strokes ;)

To go along with that, there are a thousand different “styles” that live chat girls use when they are attempting to acquire a private session. There are some girls that are more petite and may play the “teen” fantasy better. Some chicks NATURALLY have a domineering attitude and they will be great at “Penis humiliation”, domination (obviously) and financial domination. Some women have the fortunate luck to simply get their feet or voluptuous ass worshiped for the entire exclusive chat session. 

"Guys can tell when you’re turned on and it makes the whole process that much more addictive for these horny guys."

My point is, there are a million ways to “skin a cat” and each Camgirl needs to FIND what works best for them to make the most money. Some girls are hot-as-hell AND they are able to do anal, which a lot of guys seem to like. If you are naturally turned on when you are raunchy then go with it! When you are doing live sex chat you have to understand that it’s the INTERNET and there are so many guys out there that have a special interest. It’s your job to find out where this is and simply put on an entertaining show. The easiest way to do this is be yourself and do what turns you on. The guys will follow.

Begging does NOT work for anyone

With this said, I think it’s important to clarify that you should NEVER beg for a private. You need to OWN your chat room and be confident. It is a PRIVELAGE for the guy to take YOU private, ladies! Confidence can make all the difference. Begging only makes guys feel sorry for you—NOT A TURN ON. We can’t always focus on the physical aspects of sexually pleasing a digital image on the other side of the world-wide-web when more focus on the psychological quirks and turn-ons can mean more committed clients along with a highly targeted stream of traffic coming into your room.

"You need to OWN your chat room and be confident. It is a PRIVELAGE for the guy to take YOU private, ladies!"

“Style stealing” doesn’t look good on you

I have heard countless horror stories where Camgirls would study (stalk) other Camgirls and they end up copying a girl’s style and mannerisms in an effort to “steal” what makes them special to the guys. For example, as soon as a recent rookie Camgirl became popular for “vaporizing flavored tobacco” amongst guys frequenting her room, I noticed other live chat girls discussing their newfound affection for other smokeable items in an attempt to make more money in their chat rooms. This “style stealing” is very common and can range from hairstyles to something as small as a specific type of bracelet. Here’s the deal though: it ends up backfiring because you should always do what makes you comfortable (in an already stressful gig). Otherwise, guys can tell that you’re being "sexually fraudulent", as subtle as you think it may be. This principle to be yourself is consistent with other professions and can mean the difference between struggling and $triding to the bank!

Personality, personality, personality

I have been around live sex chat for a long time and the BIGGEST item that separates big money-makers and women that barely “get by” with their camming earnings is PERSONALITY! If you don’t have a personality, you better have the best body ever and put on a helluva private show. Even then most guys are NOT into necrophilia and are therefore wanting a live person to interact with. Otherwise, you will find a lot of guys that would rather just go beat-off to porn. They are seeking this type of service because of the interaction between the guy AND YOU. If your personality is not engaging, flirty, passionate, interested and energetic then he’ll go to the next girl. Period. While guys are definitely more physical sexually than women they still want to have that Girlfriend Experience and that means you should treat the guys like a hot guy that you just met after a few drinks. You’re flirty, you’re engaging in conversation and you’re having a good time. When a guy can have this type of experience at home on his computer, he will keep coming back and spend ALL of his discretionary income on YOU. Be interactive and watch your “totals” go up significantly.

"If your personality is not engaging, flirty, passionate, interested and energetic then he’ll go to the next girl. Period."

While live sex chat is NOT an exact science, it’s always a good idea to be yourself, be genuinely confident, have fun and expand on what makes you unique. If you can do this, there is a steady check with your name on it.

Until next time…

Cheers :)

Lisa Xhttp://www.camgirl-advice.blogspot.com/
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