Remember, per$onality is what gets regulars

Over the last week I have been simply meandering through various chat sites (Streamate, Myfreecams, etc.) and have stumbled upon some BEAUTIFUL girls...but I gotta say...very few of them are REALLY engaging all the tools available to today's Camgirl. Since the quality of webcams are so much better guys can get a better idea of how you move (in real time versus the old choppy webcams) and get a feel (and taste) for your personality.

Why is this important?
Because as much as guys are HORNY as hell most of them also want to have a "girlfriend" experience. As I've mentioned before, Sasha Grey is not only hot and raunchy in her pornos she is also a pretty decent actress in the Indy flick, The Girlfriend Experience. I highly suggest that all Camgirls go and watch that movie to get a pretty good perspective on some of the thought processes (and even pitfalls) that live chat girls can potentially come across (even though these are "high class girls" in the movie). If you know how to "work" the idea of a guy "having" you as his girlfriend (online) then he will stay on during a PRIVATE long after he has ejaculated.

Now you've got his balls and his mind. Mold to your desired income;)

Shake that super-hot ass of yours but remember your money-maker needs to be your gift of gab and your attention to detail and the regular clients' needs. If all his needs/wants are met AND he feels an emotional connection (even if you feel ZERO-which is probably good) then you have got him "hook, line and sinker". He's not going anywhere and he'll work that much more overtime JUST to talk to you after whacking off to an image on his laptop because he now CARES about you. It may last 6 weeks or 6 years. It doesn't matter.

Because now that you know how to land a regular, you can have 20-30 guys that routinely take you on 30+ minute private, exclusive chats throughout the week. And that is the sweet spot in the camming world. You have a pretty good idea of how much you'll make every week and most of your clients will want to talk more than bang. Less work AND more cash. That's a "win-win" as they say.

Here's how to add more personality to your shows:

1) Hello, it's called TALK ladies! I literally come across MORE girls that don't talk than do converse with their guests. When you are engaging and can talk easily it puts the guys at ease and they also know that there won't be any communication issues. Life is all about communication. Bump those gums girl!!!

2) Um, try NOT to get wasted off Xanax and distilled vodka if want to make money and NOT black-out. That's not cool, it's unprofessional, you make WAY less money and nobody likes a lush. Now, if you have a pre-cam ritual where you take a shot or two, L'chaime! Do it, to it! But if you're pounding the shots faster than guests are logging in then maybe some alternative relaxation methods may need to be researched. If you're THAT nervous that it drives you to over consume inebriates then being a Camgirl may NOT be for you. If it isn't, there are tons of dudes that want to see a "nip slip" or a spanked a$$ occasionally while playing games with you on www.GameCrush.com too. No nudity (mostly). Most any girl that reads this blog can find a way to make some extra cash (sometimes a significant source of income).

Also, herbal incense is something that Camgirls can try before a show. Apparently, the stuff is very potent and more and more camgirls are smoking or vaporizing the stuff (instead of the illegal stuff). I haven't tried it but the hearsay is interesting. I'll end up researching this a bit further and writing an article on it soon.

3) Don't be afraid to mix in a flirtatious smile ladies! Guys are automatically stimulated when a pretty girl smiles at them and OFTEN it makes many guys more confident. CONFIDENT GUYS SPEND MORE MONEY. And arrogant guys sometimes spend the most (you should for putting up with a deuche bag). So brush those pearly whites and flash 'em a sexy grin. Work on the seductive smile in the mirror if you have to but just simply smiling can go a long way.

4) Try on a dress every once and a while. While most of the Camgirls I routinely see have GREAT bodies sometimes LESS is more. I've found that when I have a sexy dress on (instead of simply coming at them with a barely-there lingerie with stripper heals) guys are more apt to spending money on me (almost as if we were on a date-not a coincidence). So yeah, get on a dress like you're going on a date with Mr. Handsome with a perfectly big dick. I realize I have written about wearing sexy dresses but it bears repeating. The dress can accent curvaceous body parts while titillating his curiosity by having a bit of mystery in the wardrobe. Try it. I think you'll like the results.

5) And lastly, on this quick mini-article on how to show more personality, LEARN HOW TO TALK SHIT! I mean it. Learn how to be quick-witted and sassy with the boys! Guys LOVE a cocky, challenging girl. It just makes them want to hastily "conquer" you (i.e. give me money for shaking my tail feather) and feel good about themselves. It's all psychological...even with men. The easiest way to get into a guys head (and getting him ready to $pend) is to know how to put them in their place. They'll either love the domination (and want to take you private) or want to take you private to "teach you a lesson". Ah, too bad it's awesome milking this cocky guys for their cash. And there is no shame in that.

And this is really just a quick shot reminder that personality rules the day if you want to achieve your maximum income potential as a Camgirl. Yes, continue to go to the gym and do those lunges and make that booty round BUT don't forget about cultivating yourself as an individual and challenging yourself because when you do this you are a more interesting person...with more per$onality. And more cash in your Gucci wallet;)

Seize the day ladies:)

Lisa X
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