How to entice guys into private chat sessions

Hey Camgirls!

As I was checking out some of the hotter Camgirls on Streamate tonight, I noticed many of the girls out there were not throwin' too many lines into the water. What I mean by this statement is, you have to throw some enticing "bait" out there to the guys, without giving away a free show. It's hard out there for a pimp when us girls have to tread that careful balance between "giving too much" and being a "frigid bitch" to all the potential customers that come in. Remember, most of the guys that enter your room are LOOKING to see if they like you, which means if you show them you're a bad-ass HAUT Camgirl then they're probably going to $natch you up for a private. If this means that you have to show them your full tattoo on your arm (for example) to get a conversation going, then do it. Guys enact at least SOME sort of conversation to see if the vibe is right. Even though guys are controlled solely by their cocks, they still want to know that they can at least carry on a conversation with you, lest they get weirded out and self-conscious, which are the number 1 and 2 reasons for impotency amongst men. So...if you want more privates be more approachable, almost like a girl that's at the bar that will flirt JUST ENOUGH to get a drink bought for her but doesn't really want to "go home" with anyone ;)

Of course, any Camgirl can "go home" with a good private (virtually) as much, or as little as they want. My point is, you have to at least give the guys a reason to WANT to see more. If you're not showing your face in free chat on Streamate for example, then you need to AT LEAST doll your lips up and show those curvy, sexy things off! Yes, I'm all for NOT showing your face during these public chat sessions (this grants Camgirls more discretion if they don't want everyone to know that they cam) but if you employ this method you HAVE to at least show off some soft, luscious lips. The way lips move during a conversation can convey A TON of emotion and information. This way, potential clients can see MOST of your face and get to see a lot of your personality SIMPLY by seeing nothing more than the girls face up to her lips.

And lips are super-sensual so USE them to your advantage! This is a way to entice guys into taking you private. A great example of a girl that uses ALL of her sexiness without actually showing her face in profile pictures is PorshaCarrerra of Streamate. She is a girl anyone would love to taste, and she looks super enticing even when just glancing at her profile. And she is a great example of what I am referring to here. Smooches!

PorshaCarrera knows how to use every inch of her to entice guys into spending their load...of cash;) 

Also, be CONFIDENT when you're on Cam. Most of the girls I see on LiveJasmin, Streamate, MyFreeCams, AdultWork, etc. are doing pretty good jobs at keeping conversation up, flirting with guys and still keeping the "goodies" wrapped up until they're willing to pay, but an unfortunate percentage of the girls I see are severely lacking in any inter-personal skills. And they are the same ones that make very little money.

For the majority of the ladies that are "stuck" in FREE chat, they are absolutely sexy enough to get a bunch of privates but it's how they handle their rooms AND how guys perceive them. If Camgirls are yawning and NOT really looking energetic (and therefore probably not genuinely horny, which is a huge turn-off to guys obviously) then this is how guys perceive this girl- as a dead fish. I know it's an ego-blow to some of the Camgirl readers that just read that line but it should also serve as inspiration because chances are, you are definitely hot enough (and there are so many "tastes" that guys have you are bound to find a room full of guys that think you are sexy-as-hell!).

However, you also have to meet these guys halfway and let them know you are interested, but in a semi-genuine kind of way. Don't get caught simulating an old 80's Russian porno with lips going everywhere unnecessarily just to grab a guy's attention. Just be yourself and flirt a little but don't FORCE it just because you think it's hot. What makes YOU hot is being comfortable with your own sexuality and therefore being able to share that comfortability. When guys recognize that you are at least somewhat enjoying yourself, your private sessions will sky-rocket and 6-hour shifts will go by in no time!

Lastly, you have get a conversation going! A cool, flirty interesting conversation can definitely increase the amount of privates you receive. After all, there are really TWO parts to an adult camshow: the sexual side of course (that's why you're half-naked in front of a webcam) and there's also the conversation side of the show (hence, the name "XXX CHAT")! Duh, right?!

If you're worried about someone recognizing your voice then practice a fake accent OR get over it. It's up to you, but both options are assuredly feasible. I saw a girl the other day, that seemed to stay in private forever, that had kind of a terrible Aussie accent. BUT...she still made that dolla bill and hid her normal voice significantly.

There are a million ways to make money during live cam shows on whatever chat site you prefer (I have my opinions on them) but the mantra needs to always be confidence, energy and a little bit of saleswoman to get these cheap-asses to $pend that money, honey!

Cheers:)

 Lisa X 
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